The ultimate how-to guide on being the host with the most
There’s no part of the school curriculum that covers how to be an exceptional host, but being able to master hosting duties is a vital part of life as far as we’re concerned (not to mention you’ll earn a reputation for being the favourite relative or friend). Luckily, we’ve put together the ultimate guide of dos and don’ts to help you become the host with the most, whether you’re planning a formal dinner or a wild New Year’s Eve party.
Don’t invite last-minute
While last-minute proposals can be fun (and an exercise in spontaneity), you’ll find most people want to plan ahead, guests and hosts. Plus, by creating enough time to plan and prepare, you’re setting yourself up for success.
Do craft the perfect invitation
Whether it’s a hand-written card, a witty voice note or a personalised e-vite, crafting the perfect invitation for your prospective guests sets the right tone for your event. Don’t forget to include an RSVP, too!
Don’t use single-use
Single-use napkins have their place (kids’ birthday parties, picnics and seasonal festivities), but they don’t carry the same polish as their cloth counterparts. They’re also a more costly option and aren’t great for your carbon footprint.
Do pay attention to the napkins
It may seem like an insignificant detail, but paying attention to napkins will make a big impact on the overall tone of your event, and instantly make a table look more sophisticated. Cloth napkins are both a smarter and a more sustainable option; plus, you can inject personality with touches like embroidery and patterns. If you want to go all out, make sure to provide cocktail napkins for canapés and nibbles.
Sure, if you’re hosting a dinner party the table is the main focal point, but don’t neglect other areas of your entertaining space. Creating zones for guests to sit, chat, chill or sip on cocktails is a great way to divide up your rooms and promote mingling.
Do invest in great bathroom decor
Aside from your primary entertaining space, the bathroom is likely to be the second most frequented, so don’t neglect the decor. Go beyond cleaning with personalised touches, soft lighting and amenities; scented soap, candles, flowers and plush towels are the bare necessities as far as we’re concerned.
An absent host is not a host with the most. Guests don’t want to hear and see you flapping in the kitchen, so make sure to give yourself adequate time to prepare, and even enlist some help if you need it. Know the importance of knowing when to cheat by buying pre-made elements such as canapés or desserts if you’re stretched for time.
Do connect with your guests
Your guests RSVP’d yes because they want to spend time with you, so make sure to be present; if you’re stressed or distracted, everyone else will feel it too. Connect with your guests, make sure to make time to chat with each one individually, anticipate their needs, and importantly relax.
Don’t use white lighting
Overhead lighting is a big no-no when it comes to creating a welcoming atmosphere, similarly white lighting is rarely flattering on your space or guests. Instead, opt for candles and colour-changing bulbs to add warmth.
Do set the mood with lighting
Casual kitchen supper or formal dinner party, no matter the occasion you’re hosting, lighting is an important element you should never overlook. Low lighting, candles and differing levels create a cosy ambience and add interest to your space. We particularly like novelty pieces that spark conversation.
A hosting event isn’t the time to try out new complicated recipes that you’re unfamiliar with, it’ll lead to unnecessary stress and could potentially fall flat. Stick with food and drinks you’re familiar with making and that are guaranteed crowd-pleasers; you’ll thank yourself later.
Do serve a signature cocktail
Is there anything more chic than having a signature cocktail for guests when they come over? We think not. Decide on a drink that best suits the occasion and your personality then stock up on ingredients and get practising. With any luck, your guests will want to come over just to enjoy a tipple.
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